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Welcome to Sober Dates

The U.K's largest network of singles looking for a sober date in the pursuit of love.

It all starts by connecting to those that understand...

Finding the right partner around busy lifestyles is difficult. It then becomes extremely disappointing when you’ve looked forward to the date only to have either singleton over indulge in alcohol.

We understand that under the influence many a wrong word is spoken and many a wrong text is sent. On sober dates you get a real opportunity to see who the real person is within a comfortable environment.

Hearts & Hands

We have an established sober dating community that is ever expanding.

By ridding yourself of boozy first dates the likelihood of a second date maybe less, however the second date will always be far more meaningful. Alcohol can facilitate physical, emotional or intellectual connections with someone who in a well-lit and sober scenario would be recognised as completely incompatible.

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Hearts & Hands

If you’re looking for a serious, sustainable relationship, you should give Sober Dates a shot. You will be sure to find a like-minded individual that you connect with.

If you are in recovery and are in the pursuit of love, friendship or companionship then check out Recovery Relationships.

It all starts by connecting to those that understand….

Our team work around the clock to keep you safe and ensure the site has 100% genuine and active members.

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Frequently Asked Questions

You can create a profile about yourself, with pictures and information about your interests, and you can search and browse for other people in our network. You can tell us what you are looking for in your match, such as their age and location. You can read other users' profiles, and add them to a list of people you like.

As a subscriber you have access to the full gallery of pictures on Recovery Relationship profiles, and all their profile information. You can run advanced searches. Most importantly, you can contact other people using our messaging service, at your computer or on your mobile phone. You also have options to filter and sort your search results to find people that match what you’re looking for.

You can choose a monthly subscription at £19.99 per month, or you get a discounted rate if you purchase a £39.95 three month, £64.99 six month subscription or £89.95 1 year subscription.

You can pay using a credit or debit card. The secure payment will be processed by our payment provider. You will receive confirmation by email when your payment has been processed. Recovery Relationship subscriptions will automatically renew and can be cancelled at any time on 'your account' page.

You can join by choosing a username, password and providing your email address, as well as telling us basic information about your gender and sexual preference.

This could be a variety of different reasons. Please take a moment to email us your username and we will activate your account promptly. Always check your junk mail as our confirmation e-mail may be found here.

Most likely the files are too large. Please try finding a photo with a smaller file size or use a home computer if you have access to on.

You must have a profile photo in place to search for other people within our network. From a home computer you will see a search members button right above your profile photo. Click there to search members.

From your Phone or I-Pad, the search members link will be located in the drop down menu.

Go to My Account > Cancel Membership. You will also be given the option to delete your profile during this process. Your paid membership will remain active until your 1 month, 3 month or 6 month subscription expires.